Excuses, Excuses, Excuses.........

Hello, ILOVEMYMESS Readers,

The New Year has begun and is flying by in a Flash unless you are 6 years old where time appears to be standing still.  By this time of the year many have already started to lose their RESOLVE for some of their New Years Resolutions.   By March most people will have given up altogether.  Maybe my independent opinion, personal study of this behavior pattern is incorrect.  However why don't you do a poll in your circle of physical or social network friends to see if this is anywhere close to being true.

It is not that people don't love the idea of CHANGING FOR THEIR OWN GOOD.  It is however in their best short term interest easier to submit to old Habits if they haven't giving themselves a compelling reason to CHANGE!!

There are many reasons that can be given for not accomplishing a Goal.  The Problem is any reason, or should I say (EXCUSE)  will do.  

The Dictionary defines excuse as an apology in an attempt to remove blame from,  then another definition refers to the active forgiveness of someone who has done something in which normally They would be taking the blame or responsibility for something they should have or should not have done. It seems to me that progressively the  definition expands to an all out release, forgiveness, and pardon for a behavior or action.  Some of the relevant synonyms uses are Self-Justification, Alibi, Condone, Pardon, and Forgive.

Believe me when I say there will always be an excuse available for anything You Don't Get Done!!  

The easier it becomes for you to find one on a regular basis should alert you to the fact that you have not made a true invested commitment.  If you desire Change you can believe in for YOURSELF!!  Stop Making Excuses!!


You Might Just Need More Training or Help to Do What You Say You Want to DO!!  Ask For The Help!!




Until Next Time....


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